Howdy Blog family what’s popping?
So I was watching ABC nightline and they were showing a promo on one of the debates they had. The Topic, “why can’t a single black woman find a man”. One of the guys on there was talking about how black women are looking for a man that doesn’t exist. A Denzel Washington i.e , Fiiiiiiiiine with lots of money. I personally believe it’s the broke guys that talk like that. The way I see it, the so called single gold digging black women found a way to survive before the men came along right? Anyhoo me I am just tired of the single black women talks. Like one article I once read said, can I just be single and not have it be a national crisis? I mean? But I will watch the show though because it involves Sherri Shepherd and Steve Harvey so you know its going to be absolutely heeelarious! It airs tonight on ABC at 11.35 ET
Speaking of single educated women, I have a friend who is engaged, she’s really really educated, I am talking PHD sturvs. Great right? Except for the fact that she’s not sure the guy is really into her. He doesn’t call (they are long distance by the way) and I am like sweetie, you might want to rethink this. you deserve better and she replies well I keep saying that with all the relationships I have been in, I don’t want to be old and single, I want to enjoy marriage and I am like if you marry a guy that is not into you how will that lead to an enjoyable marriage? As in I just tire..
So when I was in college my friends introduced me to the fine art of Nigerian wedding website stalking. Oh I remember spending hours on wedding websites days before my finals. It was horrible. It’s been almost 4 years and I am still a wedding website addict. I don’t spend hours like I did in college partly because i don’t have hours and partly because I have become more efficient at it. One of my buddies is getting married next year and yep you guessed it, I am going to be on a website! I really don’t know how I feel about going from stalker to stalkee cos I know how me and my friends did the people on those websites. Oh well.. c’est la vie
Ok let me go back to work.. Have a wonderful week people!
P.S Someone please tag me in the 10 things I love, I really want to do it :)
7 comments:
You don't need to be tagged just do it. BUt if you want one, then I tag you.
LOL...how u've been stalking others is coming back to bite you...he he he. Awww, but I'm sure it's exciting...:) (I don't talk abt single black women...sigh).
Some people just think Single black women are waiting for the guy with a wade of cash some times its the other way round. NO credible guy anymore. They all have list. We need supernatural intervention. LOL!
All these marriage talks sef. How is the guy supposed to be really into her after the marriage? What you see now is what you get o!
yaay Thanks Taynement!
lol at Jaycee, apparently you should be thanking God. according to them being a single black woman is NOT a good thing.
Debbie: haha at divine intervention. you are not lying sha
Nice Anon: nne, i was just weak.
I feel Jaycee on not waning to talk about SBW
Firstly, Congrats in Advance (for your marriage of course)
we need christ to make the best of decision as a christian when it comes to issues partaining to marriage
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